I'm Tyler, a documentary wedding photographer based in Connecticut, who works with couples worldwide. I believe that weddings are meant to be lived, not performed. This journal is where I share some of my quick insights as a documentary photographer, and I hope that you find something useful or inspiring here.
If you’re thinking about having your dog at your wedding, you’re not alone. More couples are making the decision to include their dogs as part of the day. I’m a wedding photographer and dog dad who’s seen a lot of ways this can go. Here’s what works, what doesn’t, and what actually matters if you want your dog to be part of your wedding. You’ll find real-life tips, ideas for outfits and roles, and documentary photos from actual weddings.
For some couples, leaving their dog at home isn’t an option. Dogs are family. If you spend most weekends with your dog at your side, it makes sense to have them with you when you get married. This isn’t about making your wedding extra Instagram-able. It’s about letting the day mirror your life.
Dogs have a therapeutic way of cutting through nerves and expectations. They’re a reminder not to take everything so seriously. Sometimes, the best moments happen when your dog just does what they do—lay on the train of your dress, demand a treat, bark during your vows, or crash the first look.
Bottom line: Only do it if you know your dog will be happy. There’s no right way, and there’s definitely no perfect way.
Some people go all out with outfits—tuxedos, bow ties, flower collars, even custom bandanas. Others let their dog just show up as themselves. Here are a few things I’ve seen work:
Tip: Always do a trial run before the wedding day. If your dog hates the outfit, don’t force it for the photos.
Not every dog wants to be in the spotlight. Here are a few ways couples have included their dogs:
If your dog is chill and up for the challenge, they can carry rings (safely attached to their collar or a small pillow), or simply walk down the aisle as a “flower dog.” Don’t expect perfection—expect a little chaos.
Some dogs are happiest just greeting people as they arrive or hanging out with family during cocktail hour.
If your venue doesn’t allow dogs inside, you can include your dog in outdoor photos before or after the ceremony. Some couples bring their dog just for portraits, then send them home with a handler.
Receptions can be a lot—loud music, kids running around, food everywhere. Here’s how to keep your dog (and yourself) sane:
If you’re planning on including your dog, keep these questions in mind:
A little planning goes a long way to making the day smooth for everyone—including your dog.
Most of the best dog moments at weddings aren’t posed. They happen in between the planned events—running in the grass, greeting guests, falling asleep during speeches, or just hanging out with you.
If your dog is part of your life, it makes sense to have them in your wedding. Just know it’s not about perfect poses or Instagram trends. It’s about having your dog there because that’s who you are. Be honest about what your dog will actually enjoy. And if you want photos that feel true to your relationship—including the canine part of it—work with vendors who get it.
If you want your dog included, I’m all in. My approach is simple: document the day as it actually happens, whether that’s chaos, quiet moments, or your dog staring at a cake topper of themselves.
